Christmas is here and we are close to surviving all the rushing around and prepping for the big day. With all the hustle and bustle we go through to get ready for Christmas, it’s nice to notice a collective quiet throughout our town on Christmas morning.
We’ve done all the hard work – buying gifts to present to our loved ones like the Wise Men brought gifts to baby Jesus, wrapping those gifts in beautiful, sparkly paper and topping them with festive bows. We’ve spent time buying up all the ingredients for those old-fashioned family recipes that we turn to every year as we gather around the table to celebrate the Savior’s birth with family and friends. Now, as Christmas Day draws near, we can sit back and enjoy the time with those we love. And maybe this year - and all the ones going forward - we can remember that the quiet of Christmas morning is really what we long for in the first place.
While the tradition of gift giving has its roots in the story of the original Christmas, looking back at photos of 50 years ago we are reminded what a simple thing it once was. What we wanted for Christmas was really a rather short list of things. And what we got was typically the simplest thing of all, possibly an orange thrown in our stockings or something our mother’s thought we needed.
The intent was the same as it is now, but the means were so much fewer. We have countless holiday memories and most of them are centered around faith, family and traditions. If we really think about it, very few childhood memories actually include the gifts we’ve received but rather celebrating with our family. We remember less that one Christmas when we received that Barbie dollhouse and more that Christmas when uncle Larry got locked out of the house while trying to play Santa. It’s not so much about the gifts and more about the experiences and the memories of those experiences.
When recalling Christmases gone by, we are more likely to reminisce about that time we burned the Christmas turkey than we are to recall those diamond earrings we got. We remember desperately trying to shoo the little ones to bed on Christmas Eve, not the gifts Santa brought. As time goes by and we collect more and more Christmases, it’s the memories of being with family and friends more than the gifts – no matter how big or expensive. When we recall Christmas past, we usually find that the simplest things give off the greatest happiness.
Today so often we feel cheated by the Christmases we are having. So rushed, so busy, that we can’t relax and enjoy the season. This week when we sit down with our families why not focus on reviving some old traditions? Sing some carols, watch a favorite Christmas movie year after year. It’s the memories of those that will sustain us, not the gifts.
Because, as Carson of Downtown Abbey once said, “The business of life is the acquisition of memories. In the end that’s all there is.”
So this Christmas think quality over quantity, needs over wants, and experiences over everything else.
And remember: Christmas is the better for being a simple place.
The old saying “don’t start what you can’t finish,” is probably not taught as a maxim for government planners, but it should be.
And nowhere is a lesson needed more than with the half-funded, half thought-out plan for the historic Tate Depot.
The schemes, plots, fantasies and delusions for the scenic building on Highway 53 go back a decade and include both a welcome center and a marble museum.
In 2005, the state DOT awarded a $400,000 grant to both move the building to the other side of Highway 53 where it would sit further from traffic and partially renovate the structure; a second $400,000 grant was pledged in 2007 and the county apparently can re-assign another $400,000 grant that was originally awarded to help with courthouse parking but never used.
The combined $1.2 million is a serious chunk of funding. For a complete depot project, however, the county remains about $1 million short for total renovation based on bids already received. Commission chair Rob Jones said he was “flabbergasted” by the $2.4 million bid to have the depot fully renovated. He expressed hope that the small town of Tate or some other group might raise the rest of the funds.
Hope is a great thing, but starting a project with half of what you need and hoping for the rest is train wreck approaching.
Among the pitfalls is the lack of any strong community desire for a half-renovated building to be moved across the road. Even a decade ago, local historians weren’t happy to see the building moved -- which may leave an interesting structure but one of decidedly less value for history.
The original DOT rationale for moving the building was the fact that its eaves were too close to the road for big trucks pass by. But, consider that over the past decade we are aware of zero big trucks striking the eaves with any significant impact.
Tate leaders have expressed dismay that after a decade of fiddling around with plans at the county level, it appears now the county intends to complete half the work and “drop it in the community’s lap.”
The county believes the grants thus far will fund the move and exterior work, but not the interior.
We are also bothered by the lack of any clear-cut plans should the renovations actually be completed.
A welcome center may be a fine thing, but one on Highway 515 makes a lot more sense. And for a museum, Nelson has already purchased an old building where they may move their Marble Museum. Even if Nelson does want to give the museum to Tate, who would run it? Keep in mind the current Marble Museum started at the Chamber of Commerce building, but they didn’t have the manpower to run it and a busy chamber office. It got moved to Nelson where it has languished – with no marketing or direction. Why would it be any different in Tate?
You can’t expect to spend $1million to $2 million on a museum or welcome center and have it run only when volunteers can show up.
We urge the county to reconsider, and if they can’t convince the state to let them spend the money elsewhere possibly send it back with a Thanks but not thanks” note attached.
When the county switched to single stream recycling in November, conspiracy theorists came out of the woodwork to suggest it was a trick. Since all the paper, plastic and cardboard are now put in the same container, the county must really be throwing it away -- so the argument went.
Utter hogwash. The county recycling is now sent through two massive national companies: Waste Management hauls it to a facility RockTenn operates in Cobb County.
In about 10 minutes, I had seen enough on the internet to feel pretty confident that single stream recycling is for real – though the search turned up where single-stream was also questioned in other areas.
As our own public works director mused it’s hard to see why companies want it mixed but they do.
I understand people’s concern. If you are doing your part to separate your trash, lug nasty bins to either the Camp Road or Cove Road transfer sites, you want to know your old orange juice bottles and cereal boxes really are being remade later as new products.
I will not attempt to understand the whole recycling process, but I can assure you the county is doing its part and those large companies really earn money by handling recycled goods – quite a bit of money in fact.
In the national economic model recycling makes a lot of sense. Again taking to the internet, you can run down studies, from standard government recycling advocates, radical environmentalists and business groups that all conclude recycling is a more effective way to operate than trashing everything and starting from raw materials every time.
Unfortunately, turning waste back into new products such as plastic lumber, packaging, and occasionally cool by-products (fleece jackets from plastic bottles) does not create a huge advantage financially.
The process to do things like convert old office paper into packaging is not without its own costs – though recycled paper is one of the more successful parts of the industry. Glass, plastic and cardboard recycling are all a bigger challenge to make work in a business sense.
The challenges of making recycling viable financially are apparent at the local level. The Pickens public works director Greg Collis explained that they were switching to single stream as the company that had been servicing the county’s recycling center was ceasing operation here. Collis also said that over the years, they have had trouble getting rid of plastics at times and cardboard at other times. Recycled materials are one step above trash, but not by much. Further evidence of this is the two large bins of old Progress papers going back months that no one seems to want. The company that emptied those was the same as the county used. And no one is rushing to get the newsprint. (If anyone wants a load of old papers, feel free to help yourself, though retrieving them from a dumpster is not easy.) Working with Green Team recycling, the Progress bins for the past year generated $42 -- total.
A much bigger advantage of recycling is every load of cardboard you drop off at Camp Road is a load that isn’t going to a landfill.
While there is some value in recycled cardboard, there is only cost with garbage. The county still spends money to monitor methane from the former Jones Mountain landfill. You can hear the pumps running when you drive by and know that the county will be paying for those pumps to run for decades.
A further note, one of the greatest motivations to recycle in government and in industry comes from public demand. Locally, Collis said even though recycling has never paid off, it is something they recognize the people here want.
At a national level, technology companies like Dell and Cisco have both announced changes in their packaging as they feel customers expect them to cut the excess packaging and use compostable packaging materials.
If you already recycle, please continue to do so, confident that your old magazines and beer bottles are getting where they need to go.
And if you don’t recycle, now is a great time to start, especially as single stream has made it even more convenient.
I wanted to use the phrase Happy Holidays recently. It would have fit perfectly on a newsletter I was helping a local non-profit Christian ministry with.
It would have also perfectly conveyed the intended message, which was for people to have an enjoyable holiday; nothing ulterior or political implied in the choice of phrase.
You see the newsletter was going in the mail in late November and with Happy Holidays it would have been fine as a slightly late Thanksgiving letter. It would have also worked as an early Christmas greeting and they could use any left over for the first few weeks of 2015 as belated New Year’s greetings.
Merry Christmas would not have worked as I hate being wished Merry Christmas before mid-December and I certainly don’t want to read anything that starts Merry Christmas after December 25th.
I like the phrase Happy Holidays and had used it for years for its vagueness, but not the vagueness that some of you are getting riled up about. I am not trying to be pan-religious and appease everyone from Wiccans to atheists with that phrase. I was trying to find a phrase that in publishing is “evergreen” – not because it appeals to druids but because it will be timely for a long period.
I ended up not using Happy Holidays or anything except December 2014. I feared the religious intolerance the phrase Happy Holidays might have provoked.
It’s a shame that companies somewhere (though none that I am personally familiar with) make employees say Happy Holidays instead of Merry Christmas to be politically correct.
And it’s just as much of a shame that defenders of Merry Christmas have made such a big deal about it that someone doing a Christian ministry’s newsletter feels compelled to avoid a seemingly innocuous phrase out of fear that Holy Rollers will get their dander up – as though Happy Holidays is a code word for new age beliefs or political correct pandering.
It’s utterly ridiculous that with all the tension in the world already that we put so much stock in to which phrase to use, as though whether you say Merry Christmas or Happy Holidays is a litmus test for whether you are a good Christian or not. Heck, I should have used Season’s Greetings and then let the people who are proud they throw the first stones determine if Season’s Greetings meets their approval.
The heightened sensitivity to holiday correctness and the merry backlash it provoked has been rightfully mocked by any number of comedians and comedy shows with puns like “assault on Christmas” or “the Christmas attack zone,” or “terrorists say Happy Holidays, we say Merry Christmas.”
Good for the punsters. Anyone who is so self-righteous or judgmental that they try to divine another’s morality and Christian bearing based on a holiday greeting deserves to be mocked.
This year I would suggest you put the Christ back in Christmas. After all the holiday did start as a religious celebration of Jesus’ birth and Christian tradition.
But if you don’t believe that way, that’ s your business. I still hope you enjoy the holiday, even if you only celebrate with Santa Claus, shopping and mammon and watching National Lampoon’s Christmas Vacation.
Most of all I don’t care which phrase you greet me with – as long as you are relatively nice when you do it.
Each year on the fourth Thursday in November, Americans gather for a day of feasting, family and football. Today’s Thanksgiving celebrations, while likely unrecognizable to attendees of the original 1621 harvest meal, have stood the test of time and continue to be a day for us to gather around the table and celebrate the things that bring us together - health, love, friendship.
As we enjoy Thanksgiving 2014 with our loved ones, let’s give thanks for hope for the future and the blessings from our past.
Here at the Progress we are thankful....
To citizens of the year like this year’s Jeff Downing who remind us that community service is a noble part of life.
To Tara Seagraves, a Willow Creek neighborhood mother, who took it upon herself to video cars illegally passing stopped school buses and bring it to the attention of the sheriff. Her efforts may have saved a child’s life.
To a winning PHS football team. Because it fosters a sense of comradery among students and the community. And it’s just plain fun when our team wins.
To the sheriff for putting the H.E.A.T on DUIs. The dark blue Dodge Chargers that patrol our roads keep us all a little safer.
To the county’s fire service protection improvements that dropped our ISO ratings in three of the five districts - which means a drop in insurance premiums.
To the county’s more than 320 teachers who go to school every day to educate our children and strive for a positive learning environment, despite the constant federal and state push for more and more paperwork.
To the road department guys who come out in the harshest conditions to do what they can with Mother Nature’s droppings.
To Tater Patch and North Georgia Acting Company for providing our community with exciting live entertainment throughout the year.
To Carole Maddux and the countless Good Samaritan Center volunteers who have served approximately 9,000 people who are at poverty level and have no insurance for their healthcare. Thanks to the doctors, dentists, clerks, and pharmacists that all volunteer to make sure nobody goes without medical care in Pickens County.
To CARES for feeding the needy all year round, not just during the holidays.
To all the businesses who provide local citizens with good, sustainable jobs.
To the city of Jasper police officers and county sheriff’s deputies who, although Pickens County is a very peaceful place for the most part, put their lives on the line every day just by showing up for work.
To the Jasper Farmers Market, which provides us with fresh produce from local farmers. And thanks for booth rental fees that are so low farmers can keep their prices low, too.
To the employees at the Camp Road recycling center who have always greeted our smelly garbage with a big grin. Their good attitudes are infectious.
To our loyal subscribers who support us and allow us do our jobs every week - bringing you the news of this community.