I love you mommy.
I’m going to die.
Imagine reading those words in a text from your child. It’s unimaginable.
Mina Justice’s son wrote those words to his mother as he sat crouched in a bathroom hiding for his life from a hate-filled maniac. Her son, 30-year-old Eddie, was one of the 49 people to die in the Orlando nightclub Pulse in the early morning hours of Sunday. Eddie texted his mother, pleading for help while trapped in the club’s bathroom. “In the club. They are shooting. Please call the police. I’m going to die.”
In a world riddled with horrors, the overwhelming feeling now coming out of the Orlando tragedy where so many lost their lives or were injured, the one thing that now resonates: More peace. Less hate.
While the world tries to come to grips with what happened and what led a deranged 29-year-old man to walk into a club where people were dancing and enjoying life and kill 49 people and injure another 53, let us remember the victims and the families left behind. They deserve our love and compassion. They were mothers, fathers, dancers, students, couples.
While people all over the world express their heartbreak over the tragedy, those in Pickens also took to social media to show their support for the people of Orlando who lost their lives.
Today's massacre hit me harder than many. I'm happy and grateful today to be spending a few hours in one of the most tolerant and open minded cities on earth (New York) and I'm privileged to be able to have that freedom as an American. Cheers to love, open mindedness, and tolerance for good and steadfast unity against hate. ❤
--- Valerie Boehm
I will be going to Orlando next week to donate blood, march, hug and anything else I can do to demonstrate Peace, Hope and Love in this world. I welcome anyone to come and join me. #prayforOrlando
--- Mike Martin
This is not a day to debate the police response. This is not the day to debate the location it happened. This is not the day to debate gun control. I turned on TV for about three minutes and that was all I could stand. This is a day to pray. Pray for the families. Pray for the law enforcement, EMS, Firefighters, Nurses and Doctors who respond to this situation. Finally, pray for our country. This isn't who we are.
--- Allen Wigington
As I mourn today for the victims of the "Pulse" club shootings, I would like to remind anyone with hatred in their hearts against the Queer community --- we do not fear you, and you will not change us. A rainbow never hides, nor does it run--it only shines bright to unite all those in its presence. The Queer community is the Rainbow, and we will stand strong and persevere against any and all who would do us harm. Continue to shine with love and pride my daulings.
--- Daniel Picklesimer
Coming from a law enforcement and event security background. I spent more years than I care to think about protecting those who were just simply trying to leave their day to day struggles and pressures behind them, and enjoy themselves for an evening. No one deserves to have this happen to them. No one. We must all remind ourselves and others that hate will never conquer love. Fear will never overcome the goodness that everyday people across the country have for each other. It’s past time to love one another and put the rhetoric, anger and hatred behind us.
Why? How? I just don’t understand the hate in the world today. Please pray for Orlando and all the families involved.
There is not one person on this earth that is not both sane and insane. Just depending on the day and situation. We all got dark spots. Given the right buttons pushed you, me and all else are capable of things we would not believe or want to think about. But the thing I want to know is what is happening in this world today? There is a special breed of crazy loose now.
Praying for Orlando, Fl. and each and everyone of us during this difficult time. God is about love, not hate.
By Dan Pool
I am anxiously awaiting the lazy days of summer. I have been waiting on them for about 10 years and thought this could be the summer they returned. Judging by the thermometer, summer has arrived but no lazy days on the horizon.
For those who don’t understand the difference in regular ole summer and the lazy days of summer: The regular days of summer is the jam-packed, vacation-filled, crazy (and occasionally fun) period when your calendar has a colored event oval on every single weekend and most weeknights for the whole season.
The lazy days of summer are those blessed, luxurious days when absolutely nothing happens in a small town like Jasper. The days when you have the freedom to cut the grass or go fishing or throw something on the grill; NOT try to cut the grass and take a quick dip to cool off before rushing to pick up something for the mandatory cook-out, which totally knocked out your plans for fishing.
Alas, it looks like the summer of 2016 will go down as another hectic, fun-filled season of outings, events, happenings, trips and staycations that run solid from Memorial Day to Labor Day.
In fact, to borrow a term from Hollywood, this will be yet another “blockbuster” summer. And therein is the leading culprit in the demise of the lazy days of summer – every summer has to be blockbuster to measure up with the images that flood our culture portraying an ideal summer. It has to be big and exciting and crowded, not idling away at your own house.
Over the past decade, the American family has been convinced that there is something inherently wrong with spending days at home “doing nothing,” and letting kids figure out some way to entertain themselves – which solely revolves around cell service now.
Perfectly illustrating the widespread cultural push for constant social activity consider FOMO. This is a texting abbreviation and recognized condition of the Fear of Missing Out. It is defined on Wikipedia as “a pervasive apprehension that others might be having rewarding experiences from which one is absent.”
We have replaced the seasonal pause after the school year ends with dozens of new ways to entertain ourselves that overlap every waking moment. From sports camps/summer leagues, to arts camps to more vacation options to home improvement projects, to festivals celebrating every conceivable animal and food, there is always something vying for our time. And a certain pressure to conform, to not miss out.
But if every weekend offers something special, it all becomes routine so that nothing is really enjoyed because so much is undertaken. You must have time to reflect in order to appreciate what you saw or did.
The sheer unrelenting onrush of places you need to be and events you should attend leaves them all less special.
In the middle 1900s, the single day for July 4th was a massive event for this town. It was massive and memorable because that’s all there was for public gatherings or entertainment. Not only did everyone come to town for it, everyone looked forward to it beforehand and then recalled it afterwards.
Today, there are dozens of similar events and the celebration itself stretches over several days. The American public expects more than one day of excitement.
We all must fight the FOMO and saturation of images that tell us we aren’t happy or successful unless we are the snazzy dressed family and friends having an epic day that is well documented on social media.
You need to have FOMO that you are missing out on a chance to disengage and relax during the summer. There is a benefit to squandering summer days by doing nothing exciting and now is the time for it.
By Dan Pool
To the all the classes of 2016 everywhere, regardless of whether you are from Pickens High School, homeschooled, a private school or UGA, Ga. Tech or Chattahoochee Tech. Congratulations, you did it. You finished what you started and hopefully gained something along the way.
You probably have learned more about math, biology and physics than any of us old codgers (defined as those over the age of 25) know. Regardless of all the critics, schools have gotten progressively more advanced in what they teach. You may even know more about English than many of us (and are thinking how this piece could be much better right now); though I fully believe that texting and social media rants have set back the written language/ literacy by at least 300 years.
I will assure you that all you recent graduates know more about SnapChat, creating cute online “memes” (funny pictures), how to put a dog’s face on a friend’s selfie, how to stalk that cute guy/girl online, how to download music for free, how to find an address using a telephone, how to quickly learn the latest Kardashian news and 1 billion other bits of modern trivia that come naturally to you, but leave older generations clueless.
But, please note, none of the above skills offer you any advantage in finding a job. Neither will a school of higher learning nor an employer, nor the military rush to greet you because you have 7,000 followers online.
There might come a day when people can solely rely on messaging to land a job, but as long as older people are doing the hiring, you’d better be ready to go old school with a handshake and eye-to-eye interviews.
On the other hand, and at risk of making most of the faculty sitting out on graduation fields angry, I am not sure than the curriculum you students learned in the classroom is of much more value than the finer points of playing Angry Birds. There have been no circumstances I can recall in my life where being able to decipher exactly how Hamlet felt about his father or when to use the Pythagorean theorem has come into play.
I once surprised a local educator by saying that I didn’t put any stock into advanced degrees in journalism or much of anything else. When it comes to hiring at the Progress, I’d trade practical experience for classroom learning any day. I am supported in my belief by a friend who once worked at the University of Chicago, and regularly advised that degrees are like power tools – unless you know how you are going to use it, going back for more education is like coming home with a fancy machine and nothing to do with it.
Recent graduates reading this may be thinking if that is true, why in the world should I go to college. Actually there are several reasons.
A lot of jobs are closed to people without education beyond high school. Plain and simple you need the tool (a bachelor’s degree) to even get your foot in the door. Just don’t expect that online degree to really land you a bunch of high paying jobs, like the television commercials promise.
College/ tech school/ the military are environment rich with opportunity corridors. Consider for a moment how many success stories start with the founders of a company meeting in college and beginning something outside of a classroom, which led to a career. In college, you may not go into the field you studied, but you will learn how to learn and handle assignments.
Degrees are important to open doors and obtain skills, but success is made by putting what you know into practice. Doing things energetically and effectively trumps all the papers with fancy seals that you can fit on a wall.
With the motto of Nike, now is the time to “just do it.”
The people of this county ought to be embarrassed and ashamed by the primary election last week.
Few people bothered to vote and important seats went uncontested.
If this is the best we can do, maybe we should get rid of the right to vote and let the federal government appoint overseers for us.
This election saw our top local official seeking another four years. Our commission chair, the most powerful local government officer, was running against a longtime rival and yet few people cared enough to vote. It was a heated race for an office that directs where spending goes to roads, parks, economic development activities and ultimately our property tax bills. Similarly the school board chair was in a three person race. Parents and teachers who complain incessantly about every thing a school does, didn’t even turn out in any great number.
If people don’t turn out to either support or dissent with these figures, it’s hard to imagine what would bring them out.
Look at some of these disgraceful facts:
• Only 4,299 voters bothered to cast a ballot. There are 19,778 registered voters here with 15,873 considered active.
• The turnout counting all voters was 22 percent; it is officially called 27 percent (as the state only counts active voters).
• This means that only one out of every five voters enjoyed their rights or exercised their duties of being a free citizen in a republic.
• Just as bad: the following seats were left unopposed: one commission post, one school board seat, the sheriff, magistrate judge, probate judge and clerk of court.
For the unopposed incumbents, it’s a shame they don’t get to/have to face voters. In the first place, it’s good for all officials to be reminded that they work for the people. Tyrants develop when you put someone in office who never has to justify to voters what they have done the last four years.
Having public figures come every term and ask for their jobs again is the fundamental underpinning of a democracy. Even without opposition, it appeared that no one had any questions/complaints or suggestions for any of the officeholders. While politicians are generally the subject of ire here all those who didn’t cast a ballot need to take a look in the mirror. This is a public asleep at the wheel.
The fact that voters/citizens of this county didn’t take any interest in the people governing us right here in buildings we drive past everyday – seems similar to ancient Rome, in the final, not glory days. Maybe instead of holding an election next go-round, we can hire some gladiators to fight in a pit.
Most galling about this dismal display of democracy is the number of people who follow closely the presidential race. Not that the highest office in the whole country isn’t the most important.
But those who are so focused on Trump v. Clinton, ask yourself this:
Who is the one responsible for the roads you drive on everyday? The person who assigns officers to police your neighborhood? Who sets some parameters on the schools? Which government officials can you call at home or stop in the grocery store? It’s not the ones in Washington.
Luckily, it does appear that our current crop of office-holders are competent, so no harm was done by this pathetic exercise in democracy. But we must do better, our community and forefathers who fought so hard to get us these rights deserve more.
In the movie The Big Short, about the financial collapse on Wall Street, one character defends a bad stock pick by saying he wasn’t wrong, just early.
The people who estimate population growth could use a similar excuse and use it often – “the growth is coming some time.”
Except thus far, it doesn’t look like they were early – just wrong, in regards to the long anticipated or feared growth wave heading towards Pickens County.
Although they did not single out Pickens, at the most recent chamber meeting, the state Chamber of Commerce gave a pep-talk and took input on how the whole state should handle all the new faces and a sizzling economy apparently just around the corner.
The Georgia Chamber of Commerce program, Georgia 2030, indicated the state will add 1.9 million working age people who will fill over 1 million new jobs between now and 2030, hopefully giving us a 40 percent growth in the economy.
For total population over the period between now and 2030, Georgia’s largest cities are expected to get considerably larger, especially Atlanta which, if these estimates are correct, will grow by 59 percent from 4.7 million to 7.5 million people.
This figure is similar to population estimates released in 2010 by the state office of planning and budget calling for a 46 percent hike in state population; going from 10.1 million Georgians to 14.6 million during the two decades between 2010 and 2030.
Figures for our county seem ridiculously high. The same state report from 2010 projected Pickens’ population to have passed 38,000 in 2015 (we are actually only around 30,000) and hit 55,000 by 2030.
The king of overblown estimates was presented at a public meeting here in the 1990s, when it was speculated that Pickens would see a population of 65,000 by the early decades of the 2000s. That projection still lives in local lore, primarily because of the response of Mayor John Weaver, who made one of his more famous quips, saying that guesstimate was impossible as “we’d be packed in so thick, you couldn’t stir us with a stick.”
During the late 1990s and early 2000s, considered the boom era for north Georgia real estate, the state saw population growth rates around 30 percent over the decade. And Pickens and neighboring counties were often listed as among the fastest growing in the nation. The Progress during that time ran a monthly column that did nothing but list new subdivision and commercial permits and it was a lengthy article, until it suddenly went to nothing.
Looking at current Census figures, Pickens’ population was estimated by the state office of budget and planning to be 29,997 in 2014, up very slightly from 29,458 in 2010. The U.S. Census projected our population as 30,309 in 2015.
As a comparison, the state’s figures for Gilmer County had them right behind us at 28,306 in 2010 and they grew to 28,829 in 2014.
While some areas of north Georgia and the metro area have seen growth that is straining infrastructure limits (just look at Highway 575), much of the talk about rapid growth at home is little more than wishful thinking or fear tactics depending on how you view it.
Consider that historically Pickens County has mostly been a rural area, which had a tremendous growth spurt during the real estate boom but then returned to our normal growth pattern. So, despite what many people would have you believe, in the long view of history, we’ve been a slow growth area which saw a significant spurt during one period. Slow growth is the norm, not the exception, here.
Talk of growth often leads to fears that we will end up with undesirable industrial growth, or looking like Riverstone Parkway in Cherokee County or with a water park dominating the Talking Rock skyline.
All possible but not plausible. There is nothing on the horizon to portend a significant change here with population. One state economic official conjectured that Highway 515 here would not see any drastic change any time soon.
Our bet is the growth will be more of a slowly rising tide, not a tidal wave, which is not a bad thing.