A parody of life was recently posted on YouTube showing just how much technology has changed how we socialize.
And it’s not a pretty picture.
The video, I Forgot My Phone written by and starring Charlene deGuzman, shows in a very in-your-face kind of way something most of us already know – that there has been a complete takeover of our hands by smartphones. We are nothing short of obsessed. (Look for this editorial at pickensprogress.com for link to video.)
Apparently we can’t live without cell phones, and iPhones in particular. The most recent release, the iPhone 5S, sold 9 million devices within the first few days of its launch.
91 percent of American adults own a cell phone and many use it for much more than phone calls.
According to the Pew Internet and American Life Project: 81 percent of us use our phones for texting, 60 percent of us access the internet on our phones, 52 percent send or receive emails on our phones, 50 percent download apps and 49 percent get directions, recommendations for restaurants or other location-based information, while another 48 percent of us listen to music on our phones.
And apparently we do these things all the time - even in inappropriate places and times. What’s worse? We don’t realize how “bad” it’s gotten.
We take pictures and videos, chat, text and search the web even in the middle of living our lives. Charlene deGuzman’s video laments what has happened to our social lives, thanks to phones. The videographer shows us, through a two-minute video, just how often we use technology at the expense of forging real, human connections. In the video, she shows two friends celebrating over glasses of champagne, the toast interrupted for the inevitable photo op. At a birthday celebration, while friends sing happy birthday, everyone, including the birthday boy, have phones in hand videoing the moment instead of enjoying it.
In the short flick, deGuzman goes bowling with a bevy of friends only to realize they are too busy on cell phones to notice her rolling a strike. And cuddling with her boyfriend? You guessed it, he’s got cell phone in hand checking out the latest game score or celebrity tweets.
The video, apart from its straight-up humor, is also flat-out depressing.
Have we really become a culture of people alone with our smartphones, even when we’re surrounded by living, breathing humans?
Our phones have become an essential utility that we frequently check – while out to dinner with friends or in a movie theatre - much to the displeasure of those around us. [Note: one editor here said exceptions must be made when you are so, so close to finishing the next level on Candy Crush Saga.]
We keep our phones close at all times and many of us would have trouble functioning without them.
A staggering 67 percent of cell owners, according to Pew research, find ourselves checking our phones for messages, alerts, or calls – even when we don’t notice our phones ringing or vibrating.
A smaller, yet significant, number of us, approximately 44 percent, sleep with our cell phones next to our beds because we don’t want to miss any calls, text messages, or other updates during the night.
We want to be connected. We want to feel indispensable. But does this connectivity, giving people access to us at all times, make our lives better or are we ultimately losing out on the authentic moments of life while trying to capture them in our phones?